Anonymous asked: I honestly hate myself. I don't see a point in being on this earth anymore. I honestly do not believe that anyone will ever love me. I have come to think that my friends are only my friends because they feel sorry for me. Everything just keeps going wrong & I don't think I can handle anymore.

Everyone was put on this earth for a reason. NEVER put yourself down. You are beautiful and there ARE people out there that love and care about you. I am one of those people that cares about you, I may not know you but I know you are special. The three of us are here for you if you ever need someone to talk to. Remember that. 

Emily

Anonymous asked: do you believe in second chances?

It depends on the relationship, sometimes they fix everything, sometimes all the old problems just come back. But worse…

- Emily

Anonymous asked: (2)hugged a couple of times. i really like him, he's really sweet and cute but i don't think he likes me back. i REALLY want this to work, so any advice?

Ok, so by what you’ve told me here… I think he likes you back. But on that note, I don’t know how he is around you! Just keep doing what your doing because it seems to be working! If things keep going the way they are now I’m almost positive it’ll end up the way you want :)

-Emily

Anonymous asked: (1)i've been talking to this guy for a couple months now because we used to play soccer together. i had feelings for him when we would go to practice & we would text a lot and he sent me smiley faces and it made me feel good. we sort of drifted for about a month and recently started talking again. we hung out today at the beach and layed next to each other, and at one point he put his head on my stomach and we just stayed like that for a little bit. we talked the whole time & we

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Anonymous asked: hi(: so lately me and this guy have been talking, and by talking, I mean flirting. like a lot. not like sexual, but like just cute stuff ya know? the hugs and smiles and conversations you love to have with someone you like. so everything is going great. the only problem is that I just found out that hes now friends with my ex. we went out last semester for a month and I ended it. I dont think the guy I like knows that he is but do you think I should tell him? or let my ex bring it up to him...

If I were you, I’d let your ex casually tell him. Instead of you bringing it up and making some sort of ordeal out of it. If you feel in your gut that that’s the wrong thing to do then just tell him! I’m sure he wouldn’t mind too much, especially if he likes you!

-Emily

Anonymous asked: I really like this guy but i dont think he notices me! what should i do?

Try talking to him! Just start off with a “how are you” or “how’s your day!” Don’t try to hard because you might make him think that you’re clingy! If you’re shy to talk to him, try talking to people that he hangs around with, some day you guys will end up talking!

-Christina

Anonymous asked: i like this kid. but he has a girlfriend. we are like best friends & he told me he liked me, that's what lead me on. but i would die if i broke him & his girlfriend up. but i don't want to stop talking to him. & i never start the conversation he always does. i don't know what i should do, help ):

Try to keep the conversation going too, but only as a friend! Don’t flirt! Because then if the girl finds out, I don’t think it will be pretty! At the same time you should tell him to not worry about you and worry about his girl friend! 

-Christina

Anonymous asked: so recently me and my boyfriend went on a break... we aren't over, we're talking a break so we can get to know eachother better and set a sturdier base for our relationship, anyways he said for the next few days to just give him some space. this was all his idea, i like him a lot, i havent felt this wayabout anyone before. but im not sure i havent talked to him for two days, should i wait for him to start a conversation or give him a few more days then talk to him?

If he wants to talk he will start the conversation, unless he told you to text him in a couple days!

-Christina

Anonymous asked: me and this kid use to date like on and off for a year, and we broke up before Christmas, & i guess you can say i was kinda in love with him. but he already moved on & now has another girlfriend. i use to be friends with his girlfriend but since they go out i'm not anymore. anyways i went out yesterday with my friend and i seen my ex, his girlfriend, and all of there friends. i told myself it doesn't matter cause i'm so over him, but i cant stop thinking about him & i cried alot.. what do i do?

I think you should just try and move on, because why wait if you know that you aren’t going to get what you want. It sucks, but life is never fair. And if you keep saying “what if’s” to yourself than its just going to make you think even more! And try being friends with both of them, because you don’t want to lose two people that used to mean a lot to you. Especially the girl because I don’t think they will last forever.

-Christina

Anonymous asked: i really like this guy, but he is "popular" and i'm not. we sit next to each other in class(thats when i realized I REALLY liked him) and i help him and we talk a little bit, but we don't talk outside of class. I wrote on his binder "i love _" and like "ss" etc. and he goes over all of it when he is bored except he will go over the "i love _" alot and my friend says she sees him look at me, he will talk about stupid stuff just to talk to me. i think he knows i like him. What do i do? tell him?

Talk to him first! Get comfortable with him, so that if you do tell him that you like him then its not weird. Because if you guys just started talking and flirting than I would say wait till like you feel like he might like you too! Just so that you give him time to get to know you! :)

-Christina

Anonymous asked: So, I'm a girl and a junior in high school. I don't have a date to prom and I don't think that I'm going to be asked. I'm pretty good friends with a guy that is a year behind me. I kinda wanna ask him, but I don't know what to say. What do you think that I should say when I ask him? I only want to go with him as friends.

Ask him! There is never anything wrong with asking someone! Tell him that you just wanna go as friends, and that you think it would be a good time if he came with you! I’m sure that he would love to go with you! Especially because you’re older than him!

-Christina

Anonymous asked: Sooo, me and my boyfriend have been dating for 5 almost 6 months. and hes like beyond perfect.... but lately i havent been feeling much sparks for him. or a real connection like we had before. where did it go?! how do i spark things up? i dont wanna just end it but, i dont want to stay with someone i dont feel the same with anymore.

You can’t make yourself love someone! If you don’t feel the same anymore, just wait a bit longer, and just try to talk to him about it, but assure him that you aren’t gonna dump him. But if you don’t think that its his fault and its just you loosing feelings, then I would try to move on, and just stay friends with him. Because you don’t want to lead him on to long!

-Christina

Anonymous asked: there's this guy i never liked him he was always nice to me and my friends told me he likes me. now he is so rude to me and will never talk me and he was one of my best guy friends. i am soo mad at him :( and im a little insecure so whenever a guy likes me i get all happy they become a really good guy friend then they all of sudden start hating me. it makes me feel so bad about myself and i'm loosing all my guy friends???

Don’t ever let a guy make you feel down! Its not worth it, because sooner or later you will find another guy, probably better.  But if you feel like you’re loosing all of your guy friends, then try to say away from flirting and all the stuff. Because if you act like that towards him, he might think that you are just joking around, and he will think you like him, and I bet he found out that you don’t like him, which made him think its awkward. Try just talking to him as friends again! And nothing more so that you don’t loose your guy friends.

-Christina

Anonymous asked: okay so.. me&this guy had this really awesome cute thing going on. we hung out& he kissed me and stuff. he kept saying how he liked me & he wanted to go out with me and everything. then one day he started acting not himself, then that night he called me saying how he was going to ask me out that day but he didnt because he realized that he didnt know if he wanted a relationship now. he hasnt txted me since but he still acts all cute and flirty in person though... Idk what to think anymore...

It seems like hes kind of confused. If I were you I would just stay friends with him, until he starts to realize that you aren’t just going to stick around waiting for him. And then if he starts texting you saying why don’t we talk anymore then you know the he likes you, because the jealous side is coming out. If he doesn’t care that you guys don’t talk very often anymore, then don’t worry about it and just move on! It might be hard, but it will get easier with time!

-Christina

Anonymous asked: When i was 8, i got drugged and raped. I can't really trust a guy.. And there's this guy that i really like, but i don't know if i can trust him...

I’m so sorry to hear that. I know how you feel in a way, being cheated on a plenty a times takes a toll on your trust issues. You just have to find a guy that you can trust, if you don’t feel comfortable around him even though you “really like” him, then I don’t think he’s the right guy for you. Remember: all people are different, don’t base your future on your past. Take baby steps and it’ll become easier.

- Taylor